In times like these, it is important to keep in mind the spiritually inspiring Bible verse of Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be given to you.
Are you not as close as you would like to be with your son, or are you perhaps worried that the two of you might grow apart as he grows older? Do not worry, it is perfectly normal for mothers to have some apprehension about their relationship with their son, especially as he grows up and develops his own unique interests. Even if the two of you do lose some common ground, it is still very possible for you to have a close and healthy relationship by following these four simple tips:
1 Make sure you try to have dinner as a family
Young boys aren't always the best talkers, and it can be hard to get more than a "fine" when you ask your son how his day went. Setting aside a structured family dinner time every night can give him the space needed to open up a little bit more, especially if he knows he can expect it every day.
2 Take part in activities that he enjoys
Boys often enjoy connecting more through shared experiences than through shared words. If you want to have a close relationship with your son, then spend some time taking part in activities that he enjoys. Go to the park together and play his favorite sport, or learn and play his favorite video game and offer to play with him once he finishes his homework or chores. Your son will love to share these activities with you if he sees you show an interest in them.
3 Do not be a pushover just to make him like you
Your son is likely going to test your limits by acting out or asking you to allow him to do things that you are reluctant to allow. In times like these, it is important to keep in mind the spiritually inspiring Bible verse of Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be given to you. If you always give in, then your son will learn that he can walk all over you. If you stand firm however, then he might be angry with you for a little while, but he will grow to respect you.
4 Be attuned to the impact of what you say
As your son grows and turns into his own person, you may go through times when you feel distant from him. During these times it will be important not to force the relationship, but rather to simply let him know that you are always there and always ready to connect when he wants to. As he begins to realize the importance of family he will be glad that you never faltered in your love and caring.
Doing your part to nurture the mother-son relationship will ensure that, once your boy is finished with his rebellious and hormonal teen years, he grows into a man that loves and respects his mother. Just be there for him as both a friend and as a strong, firm, loving parent, and you will not have to worry about growing apart.
For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all God’s people, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is the same as the mighty strength he exerted when he raised Christ from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.